I don't want to make you conservative on LGBT issues but please realize that there is a person you would want to marry of the opposite sex who lives on our planet or another planet in another galaxy (an extraterrestrial female) and that person would make you happier than any male could. That goes for all homosexuals and lesbians. Their opposite-sex soulmates can be found on our planet or on one of the zillions of planets that have intelligent life beings on them in our dimension. There are billions of galaxies in our universe and zillions of universes in our dimension. Anyway I think you are cool and I am a fan.Let's set aside the fact that this is the exact opposite of an advice column. This reader (AKA "Something To Think About") actually gave Dan (and every other queer person out there) some unique advice.
It's comforting to think that there's an amazing opposite-sex soulmate out there for me. It gives me hope that I'll have someone to fall back on should Husband Mark and I break up -- not that we're at risk for breaking up.
That said, it made me a bit upset to learn that I have an amazing opposite-sex bride hidden away on some distant planet on the other side of the galaxy. I mean, mankind hasn't gotten much further than the moon. So the chances that our space program will advance quickly enough to send me to the other side of the galaxy to find some alien bride... Well, it's not terribly promising...
You can read Dan's advice at this link.